During a rally in tennis, a decision has to be made during a rally, to hit crosscourt, down the middle or go down the line. The result of the point tells you if you made the right decision or not. In life, we can be faced with making decisions that affect another persons life, and our own, those decisions are not a point in a rally, and should not be made nor do they have to be made in a split second. After a lot of soul searching and praying, the big final answer must come from you. Only time will tell you the outcome. Just trust that the lord helped you come to your decision, and will spare any pain it might cause, I speak from very recent experiance, and now only time will tell me if my decision was right or wrong.